I guess the time always sneaks up on you and it did when my oldest son graduated from High School a couple of weeks ago. Some how I have been bombarded with memories of him as a chubby baby and growing into the young man I am getting to know each day. He has come through some rough patches and I am proud of where he seems to be heading now. It is always bittersweet at one of these milestones because you are so happy for them and their accomplishments but you miss that baby that used to sleep in your arms.
He and I have had a hard time working out what our new life looks like together but I think we have finally gotten a groove that works for both of us. He has helped me and taken care of me in ways I know he never wanted to have to do, but he stepped up and did it. He has a big heart, but tries to hide it but I still get glimpses from time to time. He is going to be a good man, a real man.
I was so proud to be with him at his special day and celebrate his accomplishments.
I love him more than he will ever know and am so very proud of him.
I think one thing I will miss most is the trail of boys that seem to wander through my kitchen on their way upstairs to watch TV or play video games. Having them in the house this past year has kept it from feeling so lonely and I know that God has something special in store for each of these friends and I hope life allows them to keep their bonds.
I can assure you these boys kept things lively and I never knew what silly, craziness they would come up with but I wouldn't trade it for the world!
I promise my life has not been all gloom and doom as the last
post probably made it seem.This spring
has had a lot of new and fun adventures and I have gained more new friends in
the last few months than probably the last 3 decades combined.The kind of friends that have your back or a
trash can waiting when you need to throw up…you know the kind.
One new thing is that I have fallen in love with
traveling.I don’t know why I didn’t
ever get to do it before when I was married (well I do know, because I was home
rearing children!)but I am determined
to see the world even if it is on my thin dime.In April I took a cruise with a group of girlfriends, technically (in
pure 13 year old boy fashion) we named our trip the IHT 1st Annual
Tour (on Instagram you can #IHTTOUR for a glimpse of our time)…which by the way
was fabulous!!! And no, I won’t be
telling you what #IHT means. We traveled to Nassau and while laying on that
white sand beach I just decided to relocate there and any family that cared to
join me would be welcomed…eh, that did not work but it was a life changing
Do you know that was the 1st time in my life I have
done anything just for me?Weird,
huh?I mean it was totally about and for
me and it was wonderful.I was able to
clear my head, make some decisions and have lots of other fun that shall not be
named, but there is video and probably some photos and lots of dancing so we
shall hope they never see the light of day.We #IHT girls are already planning a fall trip to the mountains,
although with the hilly terrain and the copious amount of adult beverages ingested it might be dangerous.
When this trip first came up I was really hesitant but my best
wing-girl kept pushing and I am so glad she did because I got to show off my
new red bathing suit and that in itself was worth the whole trip.And, I for sure have a new favorite
color….the blue of the Caribbean waters.It is really quite funny because that has been the color I have been
introducing in my house little by little long before the trip. It is mesmerizing.If you have ever the chance to sit on a
balcony in the middle of the ocean and watch the full moon do not pass up the
opportunity in any way, shape, or form.It is a life changer.
I am so in love with the color of the water, I want everything that color!
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